Prosperity and the Human Need for Connection
A long time ago, I realized that one of the main emotions that people act out through their money is the feeling of aloneness, which I described in Build Your Money Muscles and the Letting Go of Your Aloneness CD.
The reason lies in the fact that money is a symbol of relationships. How much money you draw in is related to how connected you feel to others. When you think you need more money, you actually need more people because money is always attached people.
The feeling that you get when you crave more money is really the feeling of aloneness or loneliness. What you’re craving is connection. Continue reading
Practical Action Versus Fantasy Thinking
Feelings of powerlessness and fear about the future often cause people to retreat into inaction. At the same time, denial about the reality of current world economic conditions can cause both job seekers and business owners to hold onto the dream that the world of commerce is going to return to what it was before the recession.
Holding onto this dream often prevents people from finding innovative financial solutions. Economic recovery is going to be a slow and lengthy process, but that doesn’t mean that you have to suffer.
There are proactive steps you can take to protect yourself and develop comfortable streams of income. Here are some ideas: How to succeed, make more money, website basics
1. Rethink your career or business.
If your job hunting has yielded few results, you may need to seek employment in a new field, which may require retraining. While you’re waiting for employment, you might also consider starting a modest business for yourself. In both cases, you will have to spend either time or money learning new skills. Here’s where you get to choose between practical action and fantasy thinking.
If you have a business now and your income has decreased, as it has for many, than it’s imperative that you cut costs and rethink your product and services mix as well as your pricing. People who succeed in this economy are those who are flexible and creative about what they have to offer and the marketing methods they are using. Continue reading
The Value of Detachment
Detachment is sometimes thought of as a negative emotional state, and in some cases it is, especially when a person is unable to connect to or empathize with others. Yet detachment can also be part of a positive state of being when it allows you to be totally present with others without “taking on” their emotions. In this case, you can be both detached and empathetic.
Detachment from desire is a principal idealize in a number of religions including Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Judaism, Taoism, the Baha’i faith, and others. Each religion provides its own twist on the value of detachment, but all teach that detachment leads to freedom.
For surviving current world conditions in a healthy and productive way, detachment can prove to be a valuable skill. Detachment allows you to observe and evaluate current conditions then make conscious decisions as to what action you wish to take. Those decisions, will determine how well you thrive. Continue reading
Using BSFF to Cope with the Current World Conditions
Uncertainty caused by economic conditions, political conflicts, and extreme weather events is making lots of people nervous and stimulating feelings of vulnerability. The erratic up-and-down movement of the United States stock market is a perfect mirror of this uncertainty.
Because of everything that’s going on in the world, it’s important that you use all available tools to help you deal emotionally with current events, and one of the most effective is the energy psychology technique Be Set Free Fast (BSFF). This simple technique allows you to quickly shift your emotions from fear and anxiety to a more peaceful state.
I first started using BSFF in 2002. I had been using EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) with my clients and for myself, then decided to have a few sessions with Larry Nims, the creator of BSFF, to see what it was like. I immediately found it to be effective and liked it better than EFT because I could treat so many more issues and subtleties of issues in rapid succession. I still like it better because no tapping is involved, which makes it easier to use in a meditative state, which I prefer. Continue reading
Fighting with a Sword of Light
Two months ago while I was at a meeting, my house was broken into and the burglar took a laptop, camcorder, and all the jewelry in my top dresser drawer. Gone were pieces of my mother’s and grandmother’s jewelry and my favorite costume jewelry and beads.
When I first realized what happened, I was a mass of emotions. As I consciously tuned in to what I was experiencing, I could identify both a sense of violation and, even more pronounced, a feeling of vulnerability. Anger surfaced when I saw that the burglar had taken one of my pillowcases to put everything in. That seemed like the ultimate insult.
While I allowed myself to fully experience the emotions, I also knew that I had to find the strength within myself to let go of whatever was taken and try to see it as a releasing of the past. Since I had previously given away everything I owned on three occasions, I had some practice doing this. Continue reading
Using Financial Fear As a Positive Force
Last week, I was at a networking meeting attended by a number of consultants who work with high-level managers. One of the consultants, whose clients are mostly successful entrepreneurs, mentioned that fear was prevalent among his clients because of the current economic uncertainty. I was surprised to hear that this group shared the same kind of financial fear experienced by so many workers around the world.
A number of my high net worth friends have also shared with me that they have fears about their financial future. Wealth, it appears, is no barrier to emotional discomfort.
Is fear creeping into your thoughts about your financial position? Or perhaps it has become one of your main emotions.
Fear run amok is likely to lead you to make unsound decisions about your finances and other aspects of your life, such as taking on too much debt or arranging a high-risk mortgage.. It also has a detrimental effect on your health because of the ongoing adrenal responses stimulated by fear. Continue reading
Are You Using the Net for Your Prosperity?
More and more, the Internet is becoming an essential tool for developing your personal prosperity because using the Net makes it easier to:
- Keep track of your finances
- Learn financial management skills on sites like www.mint.com
- Develop working relationships with people all over the world
- Learn how to build and run a business effectively
- Network in order to find a job
- Find out about techniques and resources for building the internal environment necessary for prosperity
- And much more
I’m amazed at how often people I talk to identify themselves as technologically challenged. Yet knowing how to use the Internet and other technologies effectively can definitely affect your ability to prosper.
Even if you are doing lots of spiritual and emotional release work vis-ŕ-vis your money issues, in this day and age, in order to build and manage wealth, you will need to invest time in learning how to use technology. Something as simple as financial management software can positively affect your financial outcomes. Continue reading
Thriving in The New Economy
I hear a lot of people saying that they are having a hard time financially because the economy is so “bad.” The question is, is the economy bad or is it just different? I think it’s different, and waiting for it to return to what was before the recession is an exercise in futility.
Yes, it’s frustrating that, statistically, income levels for all but the highest earners are stagnating or dropping. But that doesn’t mean you can’t thrive financially in this economy, which is likely to remain stagnant for a long time.
To succeed, there are steps you can take to proactively shift how you generate income and how you manage what you generate. Here are some suggestions: Continue reading
Understanding the Marketplace
Since the beginning of the economic downturn two years ago, it has become clear that people no longer buy into the fantasy that states: Act as if you are rich and you’ll become rich. Acting rich often means spending beyond one’s means, racking up credit card debt, and creating self-imposed financial discomfort.
At the same time, the income gap between rich and poor reached record levels as the richest one percent of the U.S. population now accounts for 24 percent of the nation’s income. Because Americans hold on to the dream of upward mobility, they often remain in denial about the difficulties that the current marketplace creates for anyone hoping to rise above their current financial position.
In addition, people don’t understand how difficult it is, even in good economic times, to change one’s financial identity and realize higher earnings or more successful wealth building. Old habits die hard, especially habitual emotional responses that perpetrate the behaviors supporting old financial habits. Continue reading
Prosperity Tip: What Are You Feeling?
Anyone who follows the news these days can get the feeling that the whole world is falling apart. And maybe it is!
With protests, corruption, drug-gang violence, severe state and national budget cuts, rising gas and food prices, an unstable job market, so-called leaders acting like children, and seemingly endless extreme weather events forefront in the news, it’s no wonder that people are feeling anxious, overwhelmed, depressed, powerless, and concerned about the future.
Many people are either out of work or only a paycheck away from financial disaster. Even those with what used to feel financially secure are beginning to worry about the future of their investments.
Here’s what’s happening:
It’s not the whole world that is falling apart, but rather systems that have outlived their usefulness. As the old systems decay and new begin to form, the foundations of society are in turmoil We are in that place between the old and new that doesn’t have clear form or definition.
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