Archive: October, 2008

Take Back Your Power

Humans have amazing creative powers. Look at what has recently been created in the financial world. An elite group of colluding individuals with a similar goal–to make as much money as possible–have managed to fashion a worldwide economic crisis.

The crisis wasn’t the work of some supernatural force or power. Humans did it.

Now is the time for “ordinary” folks like you and me to form our own cartel that allows us to prosper while respecting the rights of others as we work towards a goal for the common good. We have the same creative powers within us as the greedy wall-streeters, but we can decide to work together so that all can prosper.

How to do this? First, think globally, act locally. Band together with others in your community to form co-ops, develop community gardens, offer support to small businesses, and build outreach programs. You don’t need money to do this, just human energy.

Reach out to others across the world to form support groups, partnerships, and joint ventures. When you connect to others your individual power is magnified. Recently, on one of the weekly teleclasses for the Build Your Money Muscles program, participants inspired each other to action by sharing information and encouragement. Feeling connected stimulates positive action for change.

Spend quiet time with yourself so you can connect to your own inner direction and move beyond the fear that seems to be in the air right now. Deep within you lies strength and power that you can use to create a better life for yourself and those around you. 

Arm yourself with knowledge so you can make informed choices. Spend time each day learning about the world of finance and developing practical financial skills so you can make wise financial decisions and not be swayed by advertising messages or slick sales presentations.

On last Friday’s BlogTalkRadio show (10/25), Personal Power expert Jim Bouchard talked with me about how you can develop the skills you need to develop the ability to act effectively in all situations and how this can affect your prosperity. You can listen online or download. The program is now available as an I-Tunes Podcast–just search for Joan Sotkin in I-Tunes.

On the show, Jim and I also coached one of the participants in the Build Your Money Muscles for Financial Strength & Security program about working through shame and overcoming resistance. I hope you’ll listen and learn from Jim’s wisdom. www.BlogTalkRadio.com/JoanSotkin

Personal Power & Prosperity

On my BlogTalkRadio.com show, I just interviewed personal Power expert Jim Bouchard. He defines personal power as the ability or capacity  to act and perform effectively. We examined this and tied it into the current economic situation. Jim is a terrific guest and it was a lively discussion.

Jim also helped me coach a woman who was very aware that shame was limiting her progress. I’m sure a lot of listeners can relate to her.

You can listen to this episode using the application to the left or go to http://blogtalkradio.com/JoanSotkin

The Strong Will Survive

The storm continues to batter the world financial systems, causing havoc for many. But you, as an individual, have significant control over your own destiny, even in these tough times.

First of all, you have choices. You can choose to wait until you get clobbered or take steps to behave differently. Instead of spending freely, this is the time to be frugal and actually save something, putting off the “I want” purchases until you have a better idea what’s happening in your life. Cash is king.

You can also choose to maintain a positive frame of mind. The situation that exists is not good or bad, it just is. The situation is neutral. You bring to the situation the emotions that determine whether it is good or bad for you.

We live in a dualistic world and for every up there’s a down, for every positive there’s a negative. Within each situation you can find light and dark. You can choose what you want to see. And those who can find the good, the light, and the positive can grow and flourish. Those who focus on the dark, the bad, and the negative will suffer in discomfort.

Facing the reality of what is going on allows you to examine alternatives and develop a plan of action. If you hide your head in the sand and give in to paralysis, you can’t adjust to these changing times.

We are going through a major paradigm shift and this level of change is always uncomfortable for those going through it. If you can look towards a positive future, pay attention to what’s happening for you in the moment, and do whatever you can to deal with the stress, you will survive and can potentially be one of the people who actually benefit, in the long run, from what is going on.

Don’t hide. Reach out to others and be authentic about what is going on for you. Invite a group of people to come together to discuss how they are dealing with the situation and to find solutions. There is strength in numbers. You can find power in community.

On Friday’s BlogTalkRadio.com program at noon EST, I’ll be interviewing Jim Bouchard, author of the Dynamic Components of Personal Power. Our topic: The Relationship between Personal Power and Prosperity. I hope you’ll call in or listen to the recording. http://BlogTalkRadio.com/JoanSotkin

The Worst of the Fear Seems to Be Over

From the movement of the DOW and the slight loosening of the credit markets, it feels as if the worst of the fear is over. Although there may be downward movement from time to time, it would appear that we won’t experience anything as bad as we did two weeks ago.

Assuming all goes well on election day in the US, the end of the long election journey should also add some stability as uncertainty is replaced with visible activity on the part of whomever is elected.

Obama is surrounding himself with high-level advisers including Warren Buffet, Paul Volker, and a number of Clinton-era finance people. It has been said that Obama is highly interested in the economic question and goes deeply into issues.

Although there were major screw-ups by those who should know better, they appear to be highly motivated to get the economic train back on track. It’s probably going to be a bit of a long haul, especially in a world that craves instant-gratification, but apparently, we have avoided a disaster.

Riding Out the Storm

We’ve all watched the movie: A terrible storm batters a ship at sea. Wind blows and waves build as the audience holds their breath waiting to see if those on board live or die. Sometimes there’s a happy ending as the storm subsides, the rough waters calm, and the ship and it’s passengers survive. Other scenarios end in tragedy.

Right now, the planet is the midst of a gigantic financial storm, and we are collectively holding our breath while the waves toss us about and we wait for the storm to end. Storms always do end, but we can’t assess the damage until it is over.

This is a really big storm, and like hurricanes Katrina and Ike will leave a lot of destruction in its path. We can’t avoid the fact that we will have to deal with the destruction and go through a period of rebuilding. It’s not going to be quick and for many it’s not going to be easy.

How well you ride out the storm depends, in part, on your coping skills as the world around you morphs into something new. You can choose to watch the movie–or not–and either stay detached or get caught up in the terror of the rough ride. 

For many years, I have been learning how to detach and watch the drama. It takes a lot of practice and a determination not to get caught up in the emotions of the moment while being able to empathize with those who do.  

I’d like to teach how to do this to anyone who wants to learn to thrive and prosper no matter what is going on. In the first month, in a portion of my new 6-month program, Build Your Money Muscles for Financial Strength & Security, I present techniques for overcoming financial fear.

And the teleclasses that are part of the program provide the opportunity for people to connect to each other and share solutions.

I’m also going to offer free coaching via a new show on BlogTalkRadio.com, which will take place on Fridays at noon Eastern, 9 Pacific, 7 pm GMT.

I hope you will check out the risk-free program today and listen to the show on BlogTalkRadio.com starting on Friday, October 17.

Be Cautious, Don’t Panic

There was an interview on NPR  with a columnist from The Financial Times who pointed out that during past recessions, most people have held on to their jobs, their homes, and their income. His advice for now, be cautious but don’t panic.

I’ve spoken to a number of people in the last few weeks whose lives have mostly been affected by rising prices and/or dropping value of their investments. For many, this is combined with a general feeling of alienation from the niceties of life and the uncertainty generated by the presidential campaign. It’s difficult to feel grounded and focused.

Generally we’re in a wait and see mode, as we wait to get a glimpse of how the financial chaos is going to shake out. This is a time of caution. It’s not a good time to take great risks in either your business or personal life. Rather, it’s better to carefully consider any purchases or major moves, and if possible, wait. Unless you are faced with an emergency, wait.

It’s also a good time to plan for your future–to ask yourself what you really  what you really want to do with the next segment of your life, and spend time doing the research you need if you want to move in a new direction.

It’s also a great time to start improving your financial literacy and understanding of the financial world so when things do turn around, you’ll be ready. I know people who are poised now to buy things at bargain prices with the knowledge that they will benefit in the future.

Because times are leaner, staying in close touch with your money is a wise move. Now is the time, if you haven’t done it before, to start keeping track of your spending and earning and getting to recognize your own patterns. This is the time to cure your financial vagueness syndrome.

For a basic plan for doing these things, read my book Build Your Money Muscles. For a more advanced “course” in developing practical financial skills and overcoming issues like a not-enough or just-enough financial habit, read about Build Your Money Muscles for Financial Strength & Security.